Children of the Mist
2021 [VIETNAMESE]
Documentary
Plot summary
Di is a 12-year-old girl from the mist-shrouded mountains of northern Vietnam. She belongs to the Hmong, an ethnic minority in which girls get married at a very young age. This is often preceded by a controversial “bride-napping,” where the girl is abducted by her future husband on New Year’s Eve. Negotiations between the families follow. This also happened to Di’s sister and their mother, so it doesn’t seem strange that in preparation the women and girls discuss sex and married life without embarrassment. But Di also goes to school, where she learns very different values. And in her own way, even Di’s mother tries to warn her daughter about child marriage.
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MOVIE REVIEW Children of the Mist – Genre
The camera's closeness to the subject poses real
From a Vietnamese person: An incredible documentary
This review will be more on the personal side, as I believe other reviews from critics have already said all there is to say. As a Vietnamese person (born and raised in Vietnam), I find this documentary very impressive and delicately done. On the surface it's about a teenager who's fighting against an outdated tradition of bride kidnapping - but the mindset portrayed echoes the gender imbalance and discrimination that my own mother and her grandmother went through, just one/two generations ago. And so I feel deeply sympathetic and surprisingly relatable to the characters.
I'm not sure how a Western or Western-educated audience would understand the nuances of the dynamics of the family. To me it echoes my own relationship with my parents - they've had such a hard life, and it's not a cultural norm for them to be emotionally aware about their vulnerability and feelings with their children. So they switch between words of advice from one moment to shouting harsh words in the next. I don't doubt their love, but there are certain things they cannot escape from.
A little about the director: She came from another ethnic minority herself (Tày) while the ethnic majority of Vietnamese people are the Kinh people.
As for the fate of Di after the film: According to an interview, she got married at 17, to a person she loves.







